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Where have all the good men gone?

Hi all,

I'm on holiday at the moment! It's been so much fun, done a lot of trekking and seeing natural beauty all around me. It's been nice just taking a step back from the fast paced world of city life and going back to basics. Unfortunately though this means that there aren't many guys around if you want to lay pipe ;).

Case in point, I downloaded Grindr (I'm on holiday so don't judge). I found a few guys near me, no one really peaking interest until I got to the third row and found a guy that ticks all the right boxes. Tall, handsome (but not too handsome), nice smile... He was great. His profile was funny too (humour always wins), BUT he was 120 miles away! I thought I was seeing things but it was true. I know I am in the middle of a small town but didn't think pickings would be this slim! I looked back through the first couple of people and realised that other than me there were only 3 other gays in the village. It could have been the time of day, or lack of Grindr users but it made sense in some ways.

Oh well, I decided to go solo in my endeavours. It was weird though as its the first time I've been so remote and not found a lot of people to potentially meet or match with. I guess there are a lot more benefits in that sense to living in a city.

Can't wait until I'm back in London!



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