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One Day

Hi All,

These last few weeks have been super hectic for me. I have been working a lot and found myself in a routine of waking up daily at 6am and going about my whole day at work, coming home and then going to sleep at midnight. This has been my cycle now for three weeks. Being self employed this is unusual as I would typically have a day off, but I did a 16 day stretch of work (yay me!) and actually liked it (mainly as I was getting paid!). However, I made time to reflect on my life and what I wanted in the future. Those of you who read my blog will know my post where I talked about my plans for the coming year (See 'What do you do when everything is broken' Oct 16) and what I wanted to achieve. Well through my reflection I realised that I started to make a list of things I will do 'one day.' These are things that I want to do when I finally get into a relationship. They range from activities, to trips and even small things like ideas for things we can cook together and just being cute. All of these would happen once I move out, but it has been fun to think about, and also expose my inner romantic. So far the list goes (In no particular order):
  • Go to JunkYard Golf Club for mini golf under the stars
  • Bake pastries and cakes together
  • Go for hikes in forests/woodlands
  • See the sights of the UK - Stonehenge, the white cliffs, the giants causeway, the angel of the north, the roman aqueducts etc
  • Try new and unusual food regularly
  • Make killer breakfasts on weekends
  • Go see the northern lights
  • Travel abroad for one long haul and one short haul flight a year to new places
  • Spend a weekend in a hotel/spa
  • Go for brunch dates
  • Get a pet
  • Promise to tell each other everything
The list will be added to as time goes by. Its all mainly things I want to share with someone, and be close to. It would make for a lot of great memories and fun times. I want to be able to be goofy, random and weird with someone who totally gets me. Basically its my fantasy relationship. But I need to try and make 'one day' a reality. That is another aim for me, no more fantasising about 'one day,' time to live and make sure it happens, because it will happen... One day.



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