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How do you measure - measure a year?

Hi all,

Firstly an apology for the time between posts recently. I have been super busy and life has taken over, but in a good way. I can honestly say I have never felt happier, more hopeful and more excited for what the future can bring me. I finally got the notice that the flat will be mine in October! So so happy that this journey is coming to its final chapter, and then my new story and life can begin. This year has truly had a great impact on me. I changed jobs (and from what it looks like will probably change again soon - the effort!), found peace within myself even more, met relationships goals with bae and now will finally be moving out to our own place.

This isn’t to say living at home has not had its fun times, because it has. But time has come for me to spread my wings, and rise from the ashes like a Phoenix into my new life. It may be tricky at first to manage (I am still to visit home regularly - to keep the peace as my sister says), but will have more freedom in the weekdays I can cook, get back to the gym, regain a social life, but most of all get to spend more time with bae. That is priceless. Best of all we get to design the space for us, to our taste and get to enjoy the feeling of knowing we have our own slice of bliss waiting for us whoever we want it.

The only tricky part is we haven’t seen the flat in real life just yet. The trouble with new build properties is that they will ainly allow access when they want you to, so we have to wait another week or so to finally see our new home. That makes one thing difficult; and that’s furniture shopping. We have bought a couch (I say sofa usually but bae prefers couch so I will adapt), and we only hope it will fit. Otherwise we will be pivoting on the stairwell a la Ross from Friends. We should be fine though, I have great spatial awareness, and think it will work. The feeling of buying my first piece of furniture for the flat made the dream even more of a reality, and there is more to come. We already knows we can survive Ikea, so we know we will be fine throughout this whole process. And who doesn’t love shopping? Lol.

So here’s to exciting times in the coming weeks, with more busy days and nights making the flat a home. But honestly, I knew I found home the minute I looked into bae’s eyes two years ago. I knew I found home in his arms and heart the first time we kissed. I knew we would centre each other and make each other happy. Our home was always going to be with each other, and long may that last.



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